Given the fact that you’re here on my blog, and given the fact that you are likely a human being…allow me to be annoying and assume a few things.
You think people won’t like you if you look a certain way, or DON’T look a certain way. You’re scared to wear shorts because you are afraid everyone will scoff at you and projectile vomit all over the place. You’re not allowed to eat that cookie because that cookie will make you balloon up to 5,789 pounds; thus, no one will ever want to be your friend.
Am I right or am I right? I’m right.
I could on for days about this subject, but I want to make this quick and to the point.
STOP THINKING LIKE THAT.
Why do you love your family? Why is your best friend your best friend? Do you have a significant other? If so, why is it that you like them? Do you love someone? Well, why is that? What is it about them that makes them worthy or your love?
It has nothing to do with looks. It has EVERYTHING to do with character, personality, wit, humor, etc.
You could care less what your best friend wears or looks like, am I right? (I’m right.)
Next time you find yourself thinking one of the aforementioned preposterous thoughts that we all tend to have–remember that the people who love you LOVE YOU FOR YOU. Not your waist size, your 6-pack or your flawless skin. No one cares that you ate six cookies and you feel like a beached whale, because you don’t look any different than you did five minutes ago. All of these pesky thoughts are in Y O U R head.
So, why do you love the people that you love? If you had to make a list, I can almost 100% guarantee that “they have a nice quad separation” would not make the cut. Am I right? I’m right.
p.s. I’m not saying looks are not important. That’s a whole other subject. I am saying that it’s .01% of the cake. OOH, cake.